11 Feb 2013
How to choose a partner???
is that a question you are asking God or yourself isn’t relevant, knowing the right person and taking the relation towards commitment is, so here are a few insights Aasit and I are sharing from our experience…looking good is important - be clean, smell good, look good, feel good at all times- that way whenever you bump into your Mr.Ms.RIGHT you are presentable and prepared…
- First find yourself and only then someone who is crazy about you and loves you in all your strengths and weakness will find you…that’s natures law and that’s the best way it works…when you are clear on what you want from life, then nature will unfold someone who complements you- meditate to achieve that clarity. no matter how special, clarity cannot be given by someone…
- love and respect yourself and you will receive the same…after you feel you have met someone or a few, who interest you – see if you feel good about yourself, if this person makes you feel happier, lighter and great about yourself then this can be a strong deciding/short-listing factor.women need to see that the guy takes care of your feeling and men need to see if the woman is taking care of your ego, this way Guruji says you can go a LONGER way
- be natural, be honest…trying to be something or someone only works short term, if you want something to last, being natural is essential and after the initial formalities its important that you feel that the person you are interested in is also natural, at ease and open to communication…being genuine and honest are virtues that will take your relationship from being average to rock solid, it eases out any discomfort, and you can start off strong.
- work from abundance: that’s the best way to find the best person, you don’t want to ruin chances by looking and sounding desperate,with abundance comes dispassion and that’s your strength in attracting the best/appropriate and in choosing someone for a long term relation…
- Listen to your heart : you cant plan it, you cannot plan to choose a partner- it happens- love or arranged is irrelevant, it will happen when it has to, having immense faith that things will work out for your best is important
- Investing in the relationship and taking the lead : if you have met someone, with whom you think things can work out, don’t hesitate to communicate and share…being mysterious is primitive, have the courage to start a conversation, talk it out – …and when you realize this is something you are serious, as Guruji says dont hold yourself back from giving and investing unconditionally to nurture this relationship also when its time to receive be gracious to do so,,,
- Value your time, prioratise this relation : after the formalities have waned off, its important for you and your future partner to see that you prioritize this relationship, sometimes over everything else, sometimes along many things, the ability to mold your time for one another speaks alot about how this relation is perceived and heading…so watch out…
- Having a goal in life : like Guruji says you need to have a vision bigger than yourself and its important the person your interested in also has one, it adds charm to your character…and adds value to your relation, that way to learn and teach one another…this ensures freshness and sparkle in your relation
- Patience : time has a mind of its own, with patience and faith, time will let you know whats best for you, so do respect time, it gives chance for blossoming, for strengthening of the relation, it also gives clarity on whats needed and what needs to be weeded in the relation…
- be the captain of your relationSHIP: with love, patience and faith you can steer your relationship the way you want…the courage to be honest, the strength to stand by one another, the patience to accept and wait for change and most important the LOVE to heal and share, will fuel your relation to greater heights…
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Nice article and just something I was speaking about before opening this blog and reading this
Something couples can also read this Valentine’s Day!!
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thank you…
Very Nice Article…
happy you liked it yamini…
Beautiful
simple yet profound…. Truly amaging
Very good, ideal for marriageble brides & grooms